Thursday, January 27, 2011

I do, But first...

Hey yall,

What you think of pre-nups?

If you made substantially more money than your fiance or had
significantly more assets than him or was going to be the primary
breadwinner of your household - would you make your groom-to-be sign a pre-nup?

4 comments:

Anonymous said...

Yes, I would and I wouldn't have an issue signing a pre-nup if the situation was reversed. The way I see it is, there's ours, mine and yours. Whatever you had before we got together should be solely yours and whatever I had prior to should be solely mine. If for whatever reason, we don't make it, we can split the possessions that we accumulated while we were together and go our separate ways. I would be leery

Anonymous said...

HIT SEND TOO FAST...Yes, I would and I wouldn't have an issue signing a prenup if the situation was reversed. The way I see it is, there's ours, mine and yours. Whatever you had before we got together should be solely yours and whatever I had prior to should be solely mine. If for whatever reason, we don't make it, we can split the possessions that we accumulated while we were together and go our separate ways. At this point in my life, I would be leery of a man who would have an issue with this approach.

Anonymous said...

Absolutely! If I had millions of dollars then I would have a prenup. Have you watched the Real Housewives of Beverly Hills? The Malouf woman owns the Palms and Sacramento Kings basketball team with her brothers and said that she and her hubbie keep their money separate.

I actually only think prenups are necessary if a substantial amount of money and/or business is involved. I don't have to worry about this. :--)

SingLikeSassy said...

I would ask for one and I would sign one. Better to hammer it out while y'all are in love and can be rational and fair than to fight over it when the marriage ends.